“What-if” End-of-Life Planning Blog

Make this the Year to Act
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Make this the Year to Act

Now that we’re into 2023, it’s appropriate to look forward to the year ahead. Our goal at Prepare Your Affairs is help you attain the peace of mind that comes with getting your end-of-life affairs in order. In this week’s tip, we offer some suggestions about how to go about accomplishing this task.

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Grief Support Groups
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Grief Support Groups

If you know anything about our journey following the death of Dave and Kris and our struggle to move forward in life afterwards, you know that our widow and widower grief support group played an important role. In this week’s blog, we discuss how and why this helped us and where those in mourning might be able to find a similar type of group for them.

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Is Preparing Emotionally and Mentally Possible?
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Is Preparing Emotionally and Mentally Possible?

No matter how prepared a family may be for the death of a loved one, grief will come, and it will manifest itself in different ways for different people. It’s hard to predict how one will grieve because so much of it will depend on your relationship to the deceased, the circumstances of their death, and even your own life situation at the moment your loved one dies. So that begs the question, how can a person prepare emotionally and mentally for the death of another?

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Scams Against the Grieving
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Scams Against the Grieving

One of the most upsetting challenges we have discovered since joining the widowhood world is the proliferation of scams that target individuals and families in mourning. Loss is hard enough as it is, but to be violated by someone looking to take advantage of one’s vulnerable state is a cruel twist of the proverbial knife. This week in our blog we discuss scams against those who are grieving.

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Where to Buy Life Insurance
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Where to Buy Life Insurance

Life insurance should be a key component in the financial plan for most families preparing for the death of a loved on whom they are dependent in some way. In this week’s tip we’ll discuss the pros and cons of the different ways to acquire life insurance.

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Guardianship of Children
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Guardianship of Children

In a 2014 Survey of Income and Program Participation by the United States Census Bureau, 0.1 percent of children under the age of 18 had lost both parents to death. That's one out of every 1000 kids. So while the odds are still in your child's favor…

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How and Why We Grieve Differently
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How and Why We Grieve Differently

Grief is a complex word, which makes it the perfect description of the emotions we face when a loved one dies. Most of us can articulate a definition, but if you closely observe ten different people who are grieving, you’ll discover ten different types of behaviors, emotions, and attitudes. In this week’s tip, we’ll discuss how and why we grieve so differently.

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Holiday and Birthday Traditions
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Holiday and Birthday Traditions

Holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, and other special traditions are the worst for anyone who is grieving. These are painful reminders that a loved one isn’t around to help make the occasion special. In this week’s tip we’ll discuss what we’ve learned about preparing for and honoring these events after our spouses passed.

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